Hello, strokers! This is our first Mistress Q&A in a series we hope will help you get to know the LDW Mistresses better. For our first interview, Mistress Ryan has graced our pages with her beauty, charm and wit. Enjoy!
Mistress Ryan, The Dick Domme
Q: Hello, Ms Ryan. Thanks so much for offering to take part in this interview! To kick things off, please tell us how and when you first got into this line of work.
A: It’s such a pleasure to be interviewed for the Weekly Stroker, thank you for inviting me. About 2002, while I was working in the telecommunications industry, I had the opportunity to re-evaluate what it was I wanted to do with my life. I decided I wasn’t happy with where I was in life so, I looked around at different options available to me and, on a whim someone suggested I try my hand at phone domination. I’d always been involved with alternative sexuality and kink-friendly lifestyle so I decided to give it a 6 month trial … if I didn’t enjoy it, I could always go try something else. Luckily, I believe it’s worked out nicely …
Q: Do you consider yourself a sensual Mistress, or are you more commanding and mean?
A: Personally, I’ve always felt that I am very middle of the road. Sensual or strict are just opposite ends of the same spectrum for me and each client I meet with has differing needs. For some, the more nurturing side of my personality is evoked and I can be quite sensual. Others require a more firm hand and appeal to my stricter side. All women have the capacity for each within themselves … and either can be called upon as the situation warrants.
Q: What is your favorite type of session? Your “specialties”, so to speak?
A: Gender reversal, strapons and bi sessions seem to appeal to me the most. I’ve always been attracted to the power exchange that comes from role reversal, when a man submits to the ultimate act of taboo to get on his knees for another … because they’ve been taught from birth how very wrong it is … and yet, here they are, doing it for me. It’s a head trip.
Q: For a first-time caller or sexytexter, what might they expect in a session with you? Do you have suggestions for what they might do, or not do, before their session that will enhance their experience?
A: I always tell anyone who IMs me, or a first time client on the phone, to just relax and be themselves. I truly love what I do and want to be able to share that passion with everyone I encounter … Nothing will ruin a session faster than tension or stress. So I try to spend a minute or so helping them to relax and get to know each other so the encounter can be as enjoyable and passionate as possible.
Q: Please describe your single most memorable call or text session, something that stays in your mind to this day.
A: Each call is precious to me for a variety of reasons … having someone break through the shell of their hesitation to truly indulge in their fantasies is something that stays with you always. I’ve had calls where I have made someone beg for cock, cry from the pain, giggle with delight and coo with ecstasy … it’s all part of creating a world just for the two of us during our time together.
Q: When you aren’t taking calls and text sessions here at LDW Group, what do you enjoy doing? What are your hobbies and interests?
A: I’m a passionate reader. Almost anything I can get my hands on, specifically scifi and fantasy genres. If I can’t read it, I watch a lot of movies and listen to music. I love creativity in whatever art it presents itself. I have 2 female submissives that have been with me for quite a few years and we go out every Sunday to spend a little quality time together. Some of your readers may know that I travel to different fetish themed events throughout the country and give speeches on power exchange and the kinky lifestyle in general. My life is mine to live and I’m indulging, just as I encourage my clients to do.
Q: Great! Is there anything else you would like to share with us today?
A: I’m so looking forward to reading all the other interviews that you have scheduled. We have such a diverse and beautiful group of women here that our clients are truly some of the luckiest in the world.
Ms Ryan can be reached at 800-356-6169. You can see her blog at www.femdomcalls.com .
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Ryan! What a superb interview! Your genuine and kinky nature really shines through.
Brava Miss Melanie for cranking up The Weekly Stroker, so we can share even more of ourselves – with the cock jerking public.
I truly liked the mistress thing , can you post more?
Do you mean the interviews?