And now for the sexy, popular, Empress Violet!

Q: Hello, Ms Violet. Thanks so much for offering to take part in this interview! To kick things off, please tell us how and when you first got into this line of work.

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And now for the sexy, popular, Empress Violet!

Q: Hello, Ms Violet. Thanks so much for offering to take part in this interview! To kick things off, please tell us how and when you first got into this line of work.

It was a moment of inspiration really. After years in the mental health field, I was more than ready for a change. I am a highly creative person and wanted to do something that really flexed my creative muscles. Having lived a kinky lifestyle for a long time, friends suggested I become a Pro Domme. I mulled that idea over a bit, but decided that was not the direction for me. One day I happened across an ad for a phone fantasy artist. I thought about my training and experience in theatre, the many people who have complimented my speaking voice and realized…”Hey. Maybe this is exactly what I need.” Of course I had phone sex for fun with guys and knew I could do that. I applied and within 24 hours I got a call from Ms Ally. After speaking with her, I knew this was precisely what I wanted to do. I was really excited about the prospect of working with her. It was clear that the work would be extremely creative and flexible. Perfect for a girl like me. Before I knew it, I was accepted and have loved every minute of it since.

Q: Do you consider yourself a sensual Mistress, or are you more commanding and mean?

I’m definitely a sensual Mistress. I can be strict, but not in a gestapo fashion. No yelling or screaming. I set boundaries, let my expectations be known and I keep my slaves and submissives in line. But men find that they genuinely like me, as well as want to serve me. I feel this is part of why men enjoy serving me. My voice is soft and seductive. I have had it described as “mesmerizing”. But I can also laugh and giggle abundantly. It really depends on the situation and my mood at the moment. But I am always seductive. That is simply my natural state of being.

Q: What is your favorite type of session? Your “specialties”, so to speak?

Other Mistresses have said this and I must agree…it is very difficult to narrow calls down to one favorite type. But I will tell you that I especially enjoy training slaves and submissives, forced bi, guided masturbation, role playing, cuckold and sissification. I have done all of that in real life and enjoy it very much then as well. So when I do these calls, they really come to life!

Q: For a first-time caller or sexytexter, what might they expect in a session with you? Do you have suggestions for what they might do, or not do, before their session that will enhance their experience?

They will find that my voice is very feminine and sexy. Even if they are quite nervous, I will put them at ease quickly. I’m very easy and comfortable to talk with. I enjoy listening to whatever you feel I need to know. Whether it be information about your desires and how to make the phone experience most pleasurable, or just chatting about a topic you have on your mind. A big part of the joy for me is getting to know the caller. Finding out what makes them tick, what might be a turn-off. If the caller did not send me an introductory email about their preferences, I will likely ask some questions to assure I provide them with the best possible call. If they have questions for me, they will find I am open to answering them with honesty. If they have toys or items they wish to include in the call, they should have them handy and ready to go. If they wish to do an intricate scenario, it’s best to send an email in advance with the details, but they are welcome to tell me about it on the call. Either way, they will find I have a talent for creating a very realistic scenario and bringing it to life in a manner that makes it very real for them.

Q: Please describe your single most memorable call or text session, something that stays in your mind to this day.

There have been so many fascinating calls. But I think the one that stands out most for me was the caller who was being cucked by his wife and her boyfriend. He called me while the 3 of them were in the bedroom. I spoke with all of them. The cuck, the wife, the boyfriend. They were one happy bunch! Their desire was to have me direct the action for the night, so that is precisely what I did. It was rather like directing a movie, as they were also on web cam. So I would tell them what to do and could watch them do it. This was exciting and I got into it immediately. Who hasn’t watched a porn movie and thought, “I can make a better movie”? Well…that’s how I approached this. Like we were making a sexy cucking movie. It was hot, hot, HOT. All 3 of them were really into it and followed my directions perfectly. What a blast!

Q: When you aren’t taking calls and text sessions here at LDW Group, what do you enjoy doing? What are your hobbies and interests?

I have been a professional singer for most of my life. So I sing, write music, and produce CD’s. I play Celtic harp, hammered dulcimer, violin/fiddle, piano, recorder, doumbek and guitar. I’m also into tribal belly dance, yoga and pilates. Often, between calls, I am working out on my elliptical, or playing music. I love to read and am usually reading at least 6 books at any given time. One of my favorite things to read are historical biographies. I’ve also been involved in Renaissance recreation for many years. I’m an outdoors kind of girl who loves to hike, camp, fish, swim and sit around campfires. Also I have 2 live-in house slaves and a few sex slaves who I play with regularly. All of this keeps me very busy!

Q: Great! Is there anything else you would like to share with us today?

I feel the Mistress/slave boy or submissive relationship is the most deep, intense relationship there is. This requires getting to know each other very well so there is great trust between us. I do not take this relationship lightly. Early in my lifestyle experiences, I did switch and for a little while I was a submissive. This gives me great insight into the mind of a submissive. Their needs and desires. I have an uncanny ability to understand these needs, often before the man even realizes it himself. To me, this is the desired state to be reached between a Mistress and her slave/submissive. Where she intuits his needs and can comfortably stretch his boundaries a bit now and then. Together we discover new experiences and are, as a consequence of this, pushing the boundaries back a bit. It’s extremely exciting and I adore intensity.

Empress Violet can be reached at 800-356-6169. You can see her blog at http://www.personalpleasurecalls.com/.

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